While reminiscing, my daughter, Jon Marie, said she had two special memories of a special someone, that someone being Donnie Kinsey, the young man who became a great cowboy and that I wrote about in my previous entry.
Like all of us, Jon Marie said she had many memories of Donnie, but two remembrances stood out the most. One special memory is of Jon Marie, her brother Jimmy, and Donnie raising orphan calves on the bottle in the horse barns and pens beside the Cracker Barrell at Hilltop Lakes back in the late 1970's. (Note: My last child, a son, Robert Lee Powell-- aka "Bobby" --was born in 1975 at Madisonville, Texas, after we had lived several years at Hilltop Lakes.)
A huge cattle spread, Granada Ranch, was just up the road, and sometimes a mama cow would not take her calf, or would have twin calves, but would only take one, or the cow would die giving birth to the calf. When that would happen, the ranch foreman would give my kids the calves to raise on the bottle.
The baby calves were a special attraction for many a city kid visiting Hilltop who loved being allowed to hold the milk bottle while the baby calf nursed from it. Jon Marie and Jimmy liked having the calves, especially since wanna-be-a-cowboy Donnie Kinsey was always available to help, and Donnie made everything more fun.
About three years older than Jon Marie, Donnie liked all animals, but horses and cattle best. Like my own kids, Donnie enjoyed country living, being in the great outdoors and a part of nature.
Donnie taught most of the calves to lead and made big pets out of them. I have photographs of Donnie and my kids feeding the baby calves with a bottle as well as brushing and leading the calves. I remember one heifer calf named Princess, and she was treated like one. I think the calves enjoyed the kids as much as the kids enjoyed the calves. Raising the calves was a good lesson in responsibilty.
Jon Marie and Donnie have always been special friends. They both loved riding and took out many a trailride together. It wouldn't be a stretch to say they were sweet on each other, but they really never dated, as Donnie was three years older. Each knew the other was someone special to them, almost family, in fact.
When it was time for Jon Marie to graduate from High School, she wanted to ask Donnie, her special friend, to be her date for Senior Prom. At that point, however, Donnie had been out of school for a while and wasn't living the school life anymore. Donnie had a job and was living in the real world now. Jon Marie thought he would say No, so instead, she asked Jon Whitney from Cranfills Gap to be her prom date.
Jon Whitney was a classmate and running buddy of Jon Marie's cousin, Robbie Wooten. Jon Marie spent several weeks each summer visiting her Aunt Sue and cousins Robbie and Amy, in Cranfills Gap and was acquainted with many of the Gap young people.
One friend and classmate of Robbie's, Doug Hunter-- a handsome George Strait lookalike-- in particular had a crush on Jon Marie. It was fun to run around the Gap with Robbie and his buddies Justin Tergerson, Jon Whitney, and Doug Hunter, and whoever else happened to drop by.
Some of the Gap boys even came to visit Jon Marie and our family at Hilltop Lakes. Robbie is my nephew, my sister Sue's son, and he and my son Jimmy were always close, as Robbie is just six months older. Robbie and his buddies liked to play golf at the Hilltop Lakes Golf Course.
A favorite memory we all have is of Jon Whitney, when they went to the Golf Pro Shop, the man asked Jon his name three times, and three times Jon said, "JON!" Finally, the man said what is your FULL name, and then Jon said Jon Whitney. We teased Jon for years about having just ONE NAME----JON!!!!
Jon Whitney was very pleased to accompany Jon Marie to her prom, though Donnie Kinsey had been her first choice. Jon wore a white John Travolta-style suit and his vest matched Jon Marie's turqoise dress. They were quite the attractive couple and had a really good time.
Jon Marie will be talking to Donnie Kinsey sometime soon. Though their paths went separate ways, they kept up with what was happening in each other's lives. I know it will be a time for special memories for both of them. You never forget the dear old friend who was someone special to you, who meant a lot to you,especially in your childhood days. They will have a lot of happy memories to talk about when reminiscing about the good old days.